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Additional Support & Resources

Drew Boa - Ten Ways To Regulate Without Porn (Grounding Techniques) (Podcast)
Jay Stringer, Preston Sprinkle - Freedom from Unwanted Sexual Behavior
Drew Boa - How God Designed Your Brain To Heal Itself (Podcast)
Brett Ullman - How to be a better Father, Husband, and Boyfriend
College & Young Adults Sexuality Course
The Science Behind P*rn Addiction is Scary
Carl Jung : Childhood trauma leads to addiction
The Biology of Trauma: How the Body Holds Fear, Pain, and Overwhelm, and How to Heal It: Gabor Maté MD
 
Bessel van der Kolk: 6 ways to heal trauma without medication
Bessel van der Kolk: What is trauma?
Family Foundations: Heal & Bless Your Family
Nervous System Resets Hacks
‎QUITTR: Quit Porn Now App
988 Suicide Lifeline (Canada & US)
Stumbling Toward Wholeness Video Course coupon code STWfree2024
Best place to find a CSAT or APSAT
Pure Desire Support Groups

Upcoming Events/Intensives

Can-West Samson Summit 2026
Mighty Man Camp | Father & Son Rite of Passage (Sept 2026)
Samson Society's Men Sexual Freedom Intensive Oct 16-18

Wellness Support for Teens

Start Younger Podcast: Helping Teens Outgrow Porn
 
Residential Treatment Center for Teen Girls
Therapy Intensives for Teen Boys

Kids & Teens Hub (Parents)

HONEST TALK: a new perspective on talking to your kids about sex
Father's Guide to Initiate His Son
 
Birds & Bees Course - Talk To Your Kids 1-10 About Sex
Christian Sexuality Course: Raising Kids
Christian Sexuality Course: Raising Teens
Leading Teens Course
Brett Ullman - Responding To Your Child Looking At Porn
Brett Ullman - Parenting: Navigating Everything (Live Presentation)
Brett Ullman - The Porn Project (Live Presentation)
Parenting Sex Talk Tips
Family Internet Use Plan
Fortify For Teens
Protect Young Eyes: Creating Safer Digital Spaces
Good Pictures, Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today's Young Kids
Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr.: A Simple Plan to Protect Young Minds
Capstone Wellness Adolescent Intensives
Biblical Teen Parenting Resources | Axis
Parenting Courses
Be Broken Family Care - Help to Navigate a Sex-Saturated Culture
Pure Desire Parental Resources
Courses - Parent Guidance
My Child Was Exposed to Pornography: From a Concerned Mother - Andrew J Bauman
Educate Empower Kids

Recovery Reading

Jay Stringer - Unwanted
 
Jay Stringer - Desire: The Longings Inside Us and the New Science of How We Love, Heal, and Grow
 
Sam Jolman - The Sex Talk You Never Got
 
Drew Boa - Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle—A Man's Guide to Healing
 
John Eldredge - Get Your Life Back
Sathiya Sam - The Last Relapse
 
Viktor E. Frankl - Man's Search for Meaning
 
John Lynch - The Cure
 
Dr. Dan Allender - Redeeming Heartache: How Past Suffering Reveals Our True Calling
 
Nate Larkin - Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood
 
Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic BrotherhoodNate LarkinPaperbackWith no-holds-barred honesty and poignant storytelling, Nate Larkin introduces a model of community and friendship that is reinvigorating men's ministry across the country, a model he calls The Samson Society. Too many men see the biblical hero Samson as their model for manhood--a rugged individualist of the highest order. Yet, Samson's solitary successes were eventually overcome by moral weaknesses. Larkin, through the story of his own past and the stories of those in The Samson Society, offers a radical, refreshing alternative.
Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood (Unabridged)Nate LarkinAudiobookWith no-holds-barred honesty and poignant storytelling, Nate Larkin introduces a model of community and friendship that is reinvigorating men's ministry across the country, a model he calls The Samson Society. Too many men see the biblical hero Samson as their model for manhood - a rugged individualist of the highest order. Yet, Samson's solitary successes were eventually overcome by moral weaknesses. Larkin, through the story of his own past and the stories of those in The Samson Society, offers a radical, refreshing alternative.
Samson and the Pirate MonksNate LarkinEbookWith no-holds-barred honesty and poignant storytelling, Nate Larkin introduces a model of community and friendship that is reinvigorating men's ministry across the country, a model he calls The Samson Society. Too many men see the biblical hero Samson as their model for manhood--a rugged individualist of the highest order. Yet, Samson's solitary successes were eventually overcome by moral weaknesses. Larkin, through the story of his own past and the stories of those in The Samson Society, offers a radical, refreshing alternative.
Dr. Bessel van der Kolk - The Body Keeps The Score
 
Ted Roberts - Pure Desire: Helping People Break Free from Sexual Struggles
 
Pure Desire: Helping People Break Free from Sexual StrugglesTed RobertsPaperbackDr. Ted Roberts found Christ in the skies over Vietnam, where he flew life-and-death missions as a Marine fighter pilot. Unbeknownst to his wife, however, he also brought home from the war an addiction to pornography. Since his recovery, Dr. Roberts has spoken to thousands of men about similar problems, and he has reached an inescapable conclusion: Hell is using sexual bondage to tear the Church apart! Our world, our homes, our churches have become raging battlefields over this issue, and the Internet a stealth bomber from hell with pornography as its payload. More and more men-even Christian leaders-are fighting for their spiritual lives. Now churches can counterattack the enemy's assault with this effective battle plan and strategy for dealing with sexual addiction. It's a matter of spiritual life or death.
Pure Desire : How One Man's Triumph Can Help Others Break Free From Sexual TemptationTed RobertsAudiobookHope and Healing to Break Free From Sexual Addiction There is a battle going on. Millions of victims are trapped in the struggle of sexual addiction with no apparent way out. Pure Desire is the answer to this desperate cry for help from men and women who have tried to build sexual holiness into their lives and failed . . . and failed . . . and failed. This book is also for the shattered souls of mates who are puzzled, shamed, and wounded by their husband's or wife's sexual bondage and secret life. And, this book is for the Church to come alongside those who have come to them for help. Here is hope for establishing healthy personal boundaries with proven, practical applications to claim Christ's healing power and presence, perhaps for the first time. If you, someone you love, or someone you are counseling struggles with sexual addiction, Pure Desire is an anchor amid rough waters and the offer of a new appreciation for Christ's healing power and presence. The time is now to begin walking in victory and help others to do the same. Learn how to tackle this issue with confidence, clarity, and biblical perspective.
Roane & Eva Hunter - Sex, God, & the Chaos of Betrayal: The Couples' Road Map of Hope & Healing - Recovery from Infidelity, Affairs, Pornography & Sexual Addiction
 
Curt Thompson - The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves
 
Gabor, Maté, MD - The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture
Dr. John Delony - Own Your Past, Change Your Future
 
John Eldredge - Wild At Heart (Expanded Edition)
 
Dr. Gary Chapman - The 5 Love Languages for Men
 
John Eldredge - Fathered by God
 
John Mark Comer - Practicing the Way
 
Dr. John Delony - Building A Non-Anxious Life
Dr. Dan Allender - God Loves Sex
Dr. Andrew J Bauman - Stumbling Toward Wholeness
 
Dr. Andrew J. Bauman - How Not to Be an *SS: Essays on Becoming a Good & Safe Man
 
Dr. Andrew J. Bauman - The Sexually Healthy Man: Essays on Spirituality, Sexuality, & Restoration
 
Dr. Henry Cloud - Boundaries
Jon Acuff - Soundtracks
 
Bob Goff - Everybody, Always
 
James Clear - Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
 
Atomic Habits: An Easy and Proven Way to Build Good Habits and Break Bad OnesJames ClearPaperbacka·tom·ic hab·it, noun. Definition: A small habit with big results. People say when you want to change your life, you need to think big: swap job, move house, change partner. But they’re wrong. World-renowned life coach James Clear has discovered a completely different way to revolutionise your behaviour. He knows that lasting change comes from hundreds of tiny decisions – doing two push-ups a day, waking up five minutes early, or holding a single short phone call. He calls these atomic habits. Clear delves deep into cutting-edge psychology to explain why your brain is able to amplify such small changes into such big outcomes. He uncovers a handful of simple life hacks (the forgotten art of Habit Stacking, or the unexpected power of the Two-Minute Rule), to show how you too can grow miniscule shifts into life-transforming changes in behaviour. And he reveals a simple four-stage method that will let you build atomic habits into your day-to-day life, starting now. These nuclear changes will have an explosive effect on your career, your relationships and your life.
Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad OnesJames ClearHardcoverThe #1 New York Times bestseller. Over 25 million copies sold! Translated into 60+ languages! Tiny Changes, Remarkable Results No matter your goals, Atomic Habits offers a proven framework for improving--every day. James Clear, one of the world's leading experts on habit formation, reveals practical strategies that will teach you exactly how to form good habits, break bad ones, and master the tiny behaviors that lead to remarkable results. If you're having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn't you. The problem is your system. Bad habits repeat themselves again and again not because you don't want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change. You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems. Here, you'll get a proven system that can take you to new heights. Clear is known for his ability to distill complex topics into simple behaviors that can be easily applied to daily life and work. Here, he draws on the most proven ideas from biology, psychology, and neuroscience to create an easy-to-understand guide for making good habits inevitable and bad habits impossible. Along the way, readers will be inspired and entertained with true stories from Olympic gold medalists, award-winning artists, business leaders, life-saving physicians, and star comedians who have used the science of small habits to master their craft and vault to the top of their field. Learn how to: * make time for new habits (even when life gets crazy); * overcome a lack of motivation and willpower; * design your environment to make success easier; * get back on track when you fall off course; ...and much more. Atomic Habits will reshape the way you think about progress and success, and give you the tools and strategies you need to transform your habits--whether you are a team looking to win a championship, an organization hoping to redefine an industry, or simply an individual who wishes to quit smoking, lose weight, reduce stress, or achieve any other goal.
Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad OnesJames ClearAudiobookThe #1 New York Times bestseller. Over 25 million copies sold! Translated into 60+ languages! Tiny Changes, Remarkable Results No matter your goals, Atomic Habits offers a proven framework for improving--every day. James Clear, one of the world's leading experts on habit formation, reveals practical strategies that will teach you exactly how to form good habits, break bad ones, and master the tiny behaviors that lead to remarkable results. If you're having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn't you. The problem is your system. Bad habits repeat themselves again and again not because you don't want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change. You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems. Here, you'll get a proven system that can take you to new heights. Clear is known for his ability to distill complex topics into simple behaviors that can be easily applied to daily life and work. Here, he draws on the most proven ideas from biology, psychology, and neuroscience to create an easy-to-understand guide for making good habits inevitable and bad habits impossible. Along the way, readers will be inspired and entertained with true stories from Olympic gold medalists, award-winning artists, business leaders, life-saving physicians, and star comedians who have used the science of small habits to master their craft and vault to the top of their field. Learn how to: * make time for new habits (even when life gets crazy); * overcome a lack of motivation and willpower; * design your environment to make success easier; * get back on track when you fall off course; ...and much more. Atomic Habits will reshape the way you think about progress and success, and give you the tools and strategies you need to transform your habits--whether you are a team looking to win a championship, an organization hoping to redefine an industry, or simply an individual who wishes to quit smoking, lose weight, reduce stress, or achieve any other goal.
A Comprehensive Summary of Atomic HabitsJames ClearEbookIn Atomic Habits, James Clear reveals the powerful truth that the smallest actions can spark the biggest life changes. Instead of relying on fleeting motivation or vague goals, Clear shows how to harness the science of human behavior to build tiny, practical habits that compound into extraordinary results. Backed by cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience, and packed with inspiring stories from top performers, athletes, and everyday people, this book gives you a proven framework to break bad habits, form good ones, and transform your identity one step at a time. Atomic Habits isn't just about success—it's about designing a life where progress is inevitable. Whether you want to get fit, be more productive, master your craft, or simply become the best version of yourself, this book will teach you how to rewire your routines and achieve results that last.
Dr. Caroline Leaf - Cleaning Up Your Mental Mess
 
Cleaning Up Your Mental Mess: 5 Simple, Scientifically Proven Steps to Reduce Anxiety, Stress, and Toxic ThinkingDr. Caroline LeafAudiobookA best-selling author and neuroscientist offers five proven steps to help you overcome the unhealthy thinking habits that contribute to anxiety, depression, and intrusive thoughts and replace them with positive thinking that leads to health, happiness, and success. PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
Cleaning Up Your Mental MessCaroline LeafEbookToxic thoughts, depression, anxiety--our mental mess is frequently aggravated by a chaotic world and sustained by an inability to manage our runaway thoughts. But we shouldn't settle into this mental mess as if it's just our new normal. There's hope and help available to us--and the road to healthier thoughts and peak happiness may actually be shorter than you think. Backed by clinical research and illustrated with compelling case studies, Dr. Caroline Leaf provides a scientifically proven five-step plan to find and eliminate the root of anxiety, depression, and intrusive thoughts in your life so you can experience dramatically improved mental and physical health. In just 21 days, you can start to clean up your mental mess and be on the road to wholeness, peace, and happiness.
Adam Young, Dr. Dan Allender - Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything
 
Jenna Riemersma, Dr. Richard Schwartz - Altogether You: Experiencing personal and spiritual transformation with Internal Family Systems therapy
 
Sheila Wray Gregoire - The Great Sex Rescue: The Lies You've Been Taught and How to Recover What God Intended
 
Chuck DeGroat, Dr. Alison Cook - Healing What’s Within: Coming Home to Yourself & God When You're Wounded, Weary, and Wandering
 
Lindsay Gibson - Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
 
Mike Yaconelli - Messy Spirituality: God's Annoying Love for Imperfect People
 
John Michael Cusick - Surfing for God: Discovering the Divine Desire Beneath Sexual Struggle
 
Chris Bruno - Brotherhood Primer: A Man's Guide To Turning Buddies Into Brothers
 
Gabor Maté, MD - Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder
 
Aundi Kolber - Try Softer: A Fresh Approach to Move Us out of Anxiety, Stress, and Survival Mode-and into a Life of Connection and Joy
 

Inner Child Therapy

Virtual Retreat: Healing The Inner Child
Dr. Eddie Capparucci Ph.D - Going Deeper
 
Dr. Eddie Capparucci Ph.D - Going Deeper Workbook: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction
How To Heal Your Inner Child: Older Brother Coaching
Three Unhealed Boys Within Every Man

Internal Family Systems Therapy

Richard Schwartz, PhD - Introduction to IFS
Guided IFS Experiential Exercise (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)
Jenna Riemersma, Dr. Richard Schwartz - Altogether You: Internal Family Systems Therapy
 
Altogether You: Experiencing personal and spiritual transformation with Internal Family Systems therapyJenna RiemersmaPaperbackTherapist and speaker Jenna Riemersma applies the groundbreaking insights of Internal Family Systems (IFS) for anyone who feels stuck in unwanted feelings and behaviors, with a special focus on personal transformation for readers of faith. In Altogether You, she explains why our parts are so often at war—parts of us wanting to please others and do things right while other parts seem bent on acting out, shutting down, or engaging in hurtful behaviors. Jenna explores the surprising IFS insight that our warring parts are actually trying to help us, even when what they’re doing or feeling is not helpful. By genuinely welcoming all our parts and learning how to access our God-created core Self, we can finally experience the change, integration, and wholeness we’ve been looking for.Altogether You delivers practical, life-affirming counsel from a leading therapist and speaker of deep personal faith. Riemersma understands the unique discouragement that people of faith experience when their actions do not line up with their sincere beliefs. With genuine sensitivity to tradition and biblical teachings, she helps readers understand that God is not waiting in frustration on the other side of our “pile of sins” until we “get our act together.” Rather, the God of grace is with us right here, right now in our core imago Dei—the always-accessible starting point for healing.Riemersma’s book is packed with warm, personal stories and immediately applicable insights. She guides readers through paradigm-altering understandings with helpful definitions and summaries, self-inventories, action steps, and resources.
Altogether You: Experiencing Personal and Spiritual Transformation with Internal Family Systems Therapy (Unabridged)Jenna RiemersmaAudiobookTherapist and speaker Jenna Riemersma applies the groundbreaking insights of Internal Family Systems (IFS) for anyone who feels stuck in unwanted feelings and behaviors, with a special focus on personal transformation for listeners of faith. In Altogether You, she explains why our parts are so often at war-parts of us wanting to please others and do things right while other parts seem bent on acting out, shutting down, or engaging in hurtful behaviors. Jenna explores the surprising IFS insight that our warring parts are actually trying to help us, even when what they're doing or feeling is not helpful. By genuinely welcoming all our parts and learning how to access our God-created core self, we can finally experience the change, integration, and wholeness we've been looking for. Altogether You delivers practical, life-affirming counsel from a leading therapist and speaker of deep personal faith. Riemersma understands the unique discouragement that people of faith experience when their actions do not line up with their sincere beliefs. With genuine sensitivity to tradition and biblical teachings, she helps listeners understand that God is not waiting in frustration on the other side of our "pile of sins" until we "get our act together". Rather, the God of grace is with us right here, right now in our core imago Dei - the always-accessible starting point for healing. Riemersma's audiobook is packed with warm, personal stories, and immediately applicable insights. She guides listeners through paradigm-altering understandings with helpful definitions and summaries, self-inventories, action steps, and resources.
Altogether You: Experiencing personal and spiritual transformation with Internal Family Systems therapyJenna RiemersmaEbookTherapist and speaker Jenna Riemersma applies the groundbreaking insights of Internal Family Systems (IFS) for anyone who feels stuck in unwanted feelings and behaviors, with a special focus on personal transformation for readers of faith. In Altogether You, she explains why our parts are so often at war—parts of us wanting to please others and do things right while other parts seem bent on acting out, shutting down, or engaging in hurtful behaviors. Jenna explores the surprising IFS insight that our warring parts are actually trying to help us, even when what they’re doing or feeling is not helpful. By genuinely welcoming all our parts and learning how to access our God-created core Self, we can finally experience the change, integration, and wholeness we’ve been looking for. Altogether You delivers practical, life-affirming counsel from a leading therapist, speaker, and spiritual guide. Riemersma understands the unique discouragement that people of faith experience when their actions do not line up with their sincere beliefs. With genuine sensitivity to tradition and biblical teachings, she helps readers understand that God is not waiting in frustration on the other side of our “pile of sins” until we “get our act together.” Rather, the God of grace is with us right here, right now in our core imago Dei—the always-accessible starting point for healing. Riemersma’s book is packed with warm, personal stories and immediately applicable insights. She guides readers through paradigm-altering understandings with helpful definitions and summaries, self-inventories, action steps, and resources.
What If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood? (Podcast)
Dr. Alison Cook, Kimberly Miller - Boundaries for Your Soul: How to Turn Your Overwhelming Thoughts and Feelings into Your Greatest Allies
 
Internal Family Systems And Jesus (with Kim Miller)
Experience Healing Through IFS (with Dr. Peter Malinoski) - YouTube
Internal Family Systems & Addiction w/ Jenna Riemersma (FULL EPISODE)
Internal Family Systems & Betrayal w/ Jenna Riemersma (FULL EPISODE)

Grief

John W. James, Russell Friedman - Grief Recovery Handbook

Media We HIGHLY Recommend

The Heart of Man - Movie
@ChristianSexuality Links
The Chosen TV Series

Recovery Courses & Coaching

Husband Material Academy | Drew Boa
The Journey Course | Jay Stringer
Going Deeper Inner Child Workgroup For Men | Dr. Eddie Capparucci
DeepClean Recovery Program | Sathiya Sam

Screen Filters

Home | Plucky Filter
LeadMeNot: Digital Wellness & Accountability Software
Truple - Defeat porn & online filth with Screenshot Accountability
Accountability Software to Defend Purity Online - Accountable2You
Quit Porn Today Through the Power of Accountability | Ever Accountable

Recovery Podcasts

Start Younger - Helping Dads & Boys Outgrow Porn
 
Restoring the Soul with Michael John Cusick
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Same Sex Attraction Support (LGBT)

LGBTQ Issues Dividing the Church - Preston Sprinkle & Sean McDowell
Preston Sprinkle - People to be Loved: Why Homosexuality is Not Just An Issue
Preston Sprinkle - Embodied: Transgender Identities, the Church, and What the Bible Has to Say
 
Preston Sprinkle - Sexuality & Gender Session (Theology In The Raw Conference 2022)
The Center for Faith, Sexuality & Gender
Support for Men Conflicted Over Same-Sex Attractions | Brothers Road
Wesley Hill - Washed And Waiting
 
Jackie Hill Perry - Gay Girl, Good God
 
Same Sex Attraction: God's "Special" Path to Freedom