• Loss made me strong ⚖️
• Pain became my strength🚦 • Giving is my light 💡• Love became the answer for action🔮✨

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Identity and Belonging 

Meaning

The role of Biology - Neuropsychology

Roots

Our parents and/or our closest human beings are the ones shaping us as the base of our thoughts, behaviour, proyections and experiences shape personality. My father raised me with an inmense amount of love, with the best he could give me regarding ethics, quality of life, values, intellectual demanding and sense of purpose. On the other hand my sister, who showed me a role of an independent woman, with a professional career with a lot of success and his family oriented behaviour made me always seek closeness to the stem of a family. I was raised with a lot love, intellectuality, ambition, self awareness, dreams, ethics, morals and most important with a sense of that whatever I do has to have a sense to the world. I learned to be recursive. I was shown that all that was made with love was worthy of being and living. I heard my father talking about my mother in a meaningful way and he showed me I was the outcome of a real Love Story and I wanted to have for the rest of my life. 

What shape us 

My mother passed away when I was just 2 years old. My father raised me with strength and taught me to be ambitious annd self anware of everything—almost like a man. I don’t think he did this on purpose, but I learned a lot from him. (It’s funny because I actually have a lot of testosterone😅) He and my sisters were examples, giving me the courage to fight for my career and my life.
What shaped me? My father’s example and my sisters’ influence. As Durkheim said, morality is taught at home, and our values come from family. I live by a simple rule: do what you want, but don’t hurt others. That’s what makes a good heart.
My father taught me independence, self-awareness, and the importance of giving back. My sisters, who are independent and successful, inspired me too. I studied political science and wanted to combine it with management, but I didn’t want a corporate life. I wanted to make a real impact, especially on sustainability and climate change. 

Upbringing

I studied political science and wanted to combine it with management, but I didn’t want a corporate life. I wanted to make a real impact, especially on sustainability and climate change. I started my career in sales to gain skills that would help me build my own path.  

When my father passed away, some friends and even my boyfriend’s family were cruel, valuing me only for what I could do for them. That’s when I decided to leave and find a place where I’d be valued for who I am. My best friend, who also had her struggles, and I chose to study abroad, break free from the past, and focus on our futures.
We moved to Europe, supported each other, and embraced new beginnings. I was hopeful—to find new friends, maybe love, and a city and career that would fulfill me. I moved to Europe to study, work, and build a new life. I no longer wanted to stay in Colombia. Curiosity and courage have been my constant companions, leading me toward new horizons and deeper self-discovery.

All in one - Development and Action

You might wonder about my family. Because my sisters helped me financially, some relatives humiliated me and wrongly blamed my father for my mother’s death. To protect my peace, I distanced myself from my mother’s side and stayed close to my father’s family, who treated me with respect.
That distance felt right—it was my way to honor my parents. My sisters, nephews, and I became my family, even if we weren’t very close.                    After my father passed, family secrets surfaced—things that hurt both him and me deeply. Those revelations, and the way some people treated me afterward, made me step away from what caused me pain.

When he died, some friends and even my boyfriend’s family were cruel, valuing me only for what I could do for them. That’s when I decided to leave and find a place where I’d be valued for who I am. My best friend, who also had her struggles, and I chose to study abroad, break free from the past, and focus on our futures. That’s when I decided to leave.


How trauma starts shaping us

Mind

Body

Response

Purpose 

A path is not merely a route, but an experience of transformation. When integrated with nature and structure, it creates a dialogue between the human spirit and the physical environment. We are at our best when our structure—our lives, our work, and our habits—act as conduits for our natural essence rather than obstacles to it.

For example the IKIGAI shows us the deep belonging of meaning, and how we can shape our and others life based on our passions and skills. Our purpose’s base is what we love and what do we do with it and with them. There is no purpose if there is no love and you could say of course there is! But there is where greedy and selfishness reigns and when that reigns only bad feelings and bad outcomes come to surface.

Purpose is your passion, what you love to do, what the world needs, what  are you good at and what you can be paid for. All of that combined is the reason for being.

Purpose

Love

I have always wanted to have around me the love story I was surrounded by. I promised, that for my happiness I will never allow to feel empty that I wanted to feel absolutely full.

Love is being cherished, is to feel a whole when you are with someone, is to feel how the world quiets when you are with that person. Is feeling that you need no one else to feel complete, that you want to do all with that person, present and future, that you don't imagine living a single day without thinking and planning to be with that person. The most beautiful feeling is when you feel the sense of belonging, when you feel the home feeling and the best is when all you do is being moved by an engine based on love and future. 

I felt that and I feel absolutely fortunate to ever felt so connected and deep with someone because I felt and I'm almost sure I found real love. The problem always come in the language since not everyone is able to show or give in the same way we want to receive.That happened to me

Since I lost my father I always wanted create my own family. But I didn’t want to create my family without me having all the love in my hands and heart. I met someone that became the love of my life. Unfortunately we didn’t understand each other in love matters and everything became weird and unfortunate. We committed, we planned our future but he started acting weird, he talked differently he act differently as I was used to. I tried to understand but it was worst because he used my will against me.

All my love stayed in my hands, I couldn’t give it because he had a command of action that was love for him but he didn’t let my love enter his life. If it wasn’t the way he wanted to it didn’t mattered.  I waited in total 915 days to have the love of my life by my side and he never ever came to me. Always with games and clues I didn’t get and for him meant nothing. I decided to give nothing anymore, and I ended up being fake. When you love yourself you became the worst. 

Family 

What does it mean to be human - Plato/ Aristoteles/ Weber/ Durkheim/ Hobbes / Russeau / Heidegger / Fromm / 

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